The reasoning was the Red Cross and the Spanish government would help these poor desperate women and their babies materially and we should leave that side of things to them.
The children had no toys and the women had no handbags, make-up etc. or any "nice things" and what about friendship? Every-one needs a friend especially in a foreign country when to save your life you had to risk it in an unseaworthy vessel knowing 50% die trying.
We weren't supposed to get too close or "care" about them. Some of these women and children had been set on fire by husbands who no longer wanted them.
It was all very horrid and the WT attitude stank. IMO